This article by Christine Rosen brings up many good points that is necessary to share with all social networking fans. Throughout this article Rosen points out how social networking is changing to world as we know it. The way we “social network” is changing relationships along with the view we want others to see. Social networking sites are for all ages according to Rosen. She even points out that there’s a website called “Club Penguin” where little kids can play and communicate with one another. We all know of those parents who want to be “in the loop” so they join Facebook and Twitter. Christine’s main point throughout this whole article is informing everyone on the change of the world and how what used to be certainly isn’t what is now.
Relationships. That one word has many different meanings. According to social networking it’s only a relationship until its “Facebook official.” I believe many people can relate to Rosen’s story about how the relationship status changed from in a relationship to single and everyone knew through the internet instead of the face to face communication. The intended audience would of course be those who use these social networking sites and those who use them only through the means of sole communication. Some people only use Facebook to communicate with people which is very sad. Also, she is addressing those who put information up on their site. She’s informing people that others can indeed see where they live. She is not applying her words to those who don’t use these sites and who aren’t all about technology and limited communication.
Rosen is warning those who use these sites that they aren’t safe. Also, she’s trying to explain that people only put what they want others to see up on their profile. We never get to see the real person until we get to know them in person. Most kids and some adults don’t realize how easy it is for some creeper or a college to get into their profile and see who they are trying to hide. Not to mention, future employers look through profiles to determine if someone is fit for the job or not. Christine is just informing the world that what goes on profiles aren’t surely kept a secret. Also, she’s warning that our world is falling into these social networking sites. These sites say that some people have 1000 friends, but they really. Has the term friend changed its meaning too? According to Rosen it has indeed.
Overall this was a very interesting article to read. Rosen provided great information showing that social networking could possibly be in fact a bad thing if used in a bad way. I agree with her when she says “These virtual networks greatly expand our opportunities to meet others, but they might also result in our valuing less the capacity for genuine connection (Rosen 31).” Social networking is changing the way we view ourselves and others. I’m very interested to see what happens within the next couple years.
Rosen, Christine. "Virtual Friendship and the New Narcissism." The New Atlantis - A Journal of Technology & Society. 17 Nov. 2007. Web. 30 Sept. 2011. <http://www.thenewatlantis.com/publications/virtual-friendship-and-the-new-narcissism>.